AI-powered scams are transforming the online dating landscape. Cybercriminals use sophisticated technology to create convincing fake personas and manipulate victims at scale. 

From realistic AI-generated images to cloned voices and deep-fake videos, these scams are becoming increasingly sophisticated and difficult to detect. Sophos channel manager Mark Roberts said while scammers are using advanced technology to exploit online romance, AI is also emerging as a powerful tool for protection.

“By identifying red flags, verifying images, and detecting suspicious patterns, AI can act as a dating co-pilot, helping users pause, assess, and stay safe while navigating the digital dating world. Scammers are becoming increasingly sophisticated on dating platforms. 

“Instead of stock photos, they use AI-generated images that are highly detailed and convincing.” Voice cloning and deep-fake videos are also being used to manipulate victims during calls, and AI-generated text makes messages seem authentic, he said.

The Southern African Fraud Prevention Service has issued a warning that romance scams spike around Valentine’s Day. Scammers exploit the time of love, just as commercial outfits encourage spending.

Practical steps for dating safely include taking time to get to know someone, meeting in public spaces, taking a friend along, and questioning any request for early financial support.

“Relationships take time to build. If something feels rushed or too perfect, step back,” said Roberts. “The advice is always to pause and critically assess what you’re receiving before making decisions or sending money.”

“On the protective side, AI can identify red flags humans might miss when emotionally involved. Tools can flag reused phrases, suspicious timelines, or high-velocity interactions.”

Police warn romance scammers use manipulation. Photo: Facebook/South African Police Service

Image verification, reverse image searches, and AI detection are quiet heroes, acting as an emotional counterweight without judgment, he said.

Tips to protect yourself and your bank account:

• Be sceptical: Verify any unexpected friend, follow, or messaging request.
• Limit what you share online: Insights into your life give scammers information about you.
• Try to video call: set up a video call early on and communicate via video regularly.
• Don't transfer money: Do not simply agree to send anyone money.
• Personal information: Do not share personal or confidential information with someone you don't know.
• Compromising pictures: Do not send compromising pictures that could be used for blackmail.

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